For every time you think you are about to fall in love: always have a back up plan. I say have a back up plan because guys are so misleading. *well maybe its my guy who is misleading* The rules of the substitute lover are plain in simple. You can not love him nor sleep with him, all you can do is have him substitute for when your real boyfriend is being a jerk, ass hole and all that extra stuff. I don't believe in cheating but I do believe that sometimes you have to make yourself happy because if you don't make yourself happy no one else will.